Charlie was born at the end of May in 2012. I was hospitalized with severe early onset preeclampsia at 24 weeks. Due to complications, I had an emergency c-section the day Charlie reached twenty six weeks gestation.
She weighed 790 grams (a little under one pound, twelve ounces) at birth. She was tough and fought hard.
After 88 days in the NICU, she was well enough to come home. We (my husband and I) were led to believe that the story was to end happily ever after. I thought leaving the NICU meant that we were to get on with the “regular” baby experience we planned. I believed that Charlie’s extremely premature birth was to become a distant memory.
Not so much. My calendar is full of appointments with specialists and therapists. Charlie is delayed and struggles to meet milestones. We fear the sound of a cough. Feeding is a challenge. This is not at all what the baby books prepared me for.
Charlie turned two last May.
I started the blog when Charlie turned one. Before that, I logged everything on Facebook and Tumblr. I hope one day to be able to show Charlie how far she has come. In addition, I enjoy and learn from reading other blogs by parents of kids with special needs. This blog may be my way to pass that torch on.
June 22nd, 2013 at 3:20 PM
I nominated you for the “Shine On” award!! http://mscandacemarie.wordpress.com/2013/06/22/shine-on/
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June 24th, 2013 at 3:31 PM
Awesome! I will fulfill my obligations in a post later this week. 🙂
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July 5th, 2013 at 5:41 PM
This made me tear up! She’s beautiful and looks so healthy now! Glad I started following you. Luckily I only had mild preeclampsia and got to go to 37 weeks!
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July 7th, 2013 at 10:14 PM
Thanks so much for your kind words. Preeclampsia is scary even if it is not severe. I’m glad you are well.
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July 6th, 2013 at 7:03 PM
My baby girl was born at 26 weeks and spent 88 days in the NICU too. I did a blog of our time in there and of our adventures out in the wild x
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October 22nd, 2013 at 10:02 AM
Your blog popped up when I made a recent post about my (can’t believe it) five year olds, who were born at 31w6d. I mentioned an orthopedist who told me there was nothing ‘wrong’ with my son (gross motor delays, core muscle weakness, torticollis etc.) and that some kids just weren’t going to be athletic. I was both grateful and resentful. I wanted him to have every opportunity every other kid had! But then again, what’s normal? Everything is normal. Loved meeting Charlie through you! Take plenty of photos. It goes by so quickly! Looking forward to following.
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September 9th, 2014 at 2:06 PM
What a wonderful story. I’m looking forward to following your journey. I’m almost twenty-seven weeks pregnant and I write a blog called ‘Bean On An Adventure’ – http://beanonanadventure.wordpress.com. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy.
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September 9th, 2014 at 2:08 PM
So exciting!!!! Best wishes to you and for a healthy rest of the pregnancy!
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