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The Cost Of It All

Financial cost is a topic that I frequently see discussed on medical ethics blogs and rarely discussed on the preemie parent blogs. Although, it is a regular topic of conversation on the closed preemie boards. An exception to this generalization is the Love That Max post titled How Much Do Therapies Cost For Your Child With Special Needs.

I can tell you from our experience it is expensive to have a preemie and/or a special needs child. Even though our household has a respectable income and we have “good” insurance coverage for Charlie, our budget is tight.

Where do these expenses come from? Therapist co pays (if covered at all), specialist co pays, re hospitalizations, diagnostic test co pays, lab co pays,  special formula (not covered by insurance), orthotic co pays, medicines with $50 co pays, dietitian (not covered by insurance), and other special equipment (such as therapeutic equipment). That is in addition to all regular expenses involved with raising a child.

Charlie is priceless to me and I would take on even more cost if I had to for her. So, like other preemie moms, I learned to fight automatic denials,  have become an expert in Charlie’s insurance coverage, and am sure to document everything. My husband and I make our clothes last longer, go without vacations or date nights (we haven’t been out on our own together since Charlie has been home from the NICU), and shop at outlet stores. Also, I am learning about health programs that are available as she grows older.

As lousy as it is to be forced to fight for the coverage we pay for or have to pay completely out of pocket for things, I consider us lucky. I have met many preemie moms that have lost their homes or been forced to declare bankruptcy. I have even met a parent that had to take their child overseas to receive affordable treatment.

I am not sure what the answer is but our health care system is broken. Even though we did everything we were “supposed” to do, I feel like the system failed us. We are not alone. The majority of people in this country are one medical catastrophe away from financial ruin. I want to know how this is a good thing for our country.

It is time there is pragmatic talk about agreeable solutions. Even with insurance, the American dream frequently dies with the birth of a micro preemie.

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